Much has been written about Emotional Intelligence the past few years. It is an important concept, well worth study and effort. However, it remains very confusing to many people. It is not about being soft and nice. In fact, people with EQ can get angry.
Check out what Aristotle said a few thousand years ago. If you can do this, you are on your way to high EQ
Anybody can become angry – that is easy, but to be angry with the right person and to the right degree and at the right time and for the right purpose, and in the right way – that is not within everybody’s power and is not easy.”